Brooding talk at about 10:30. Ignore the topic of picking up women. Just take in the message about not trying to be a super positive homo all the time. You can brood about life, death, work, relationships, loss, whatever. But you also must let women, children, your employees, et cetera, positively affect you. Show your appreciation for the beauty of their emotions, their enjoyment of life, how them enjoying life helps you to enjoy life. You make the moment deep. They make the moment worth living. Or: You bring depth to the moment. They make life worth living.
First: Make sure you're deep. THEN: Make sure they know that THEY MAKE YOU HAPPY TO BE ALIVE.